Do everything you can to reduce your own anxiety. Start by asking lots of questions! Find out as much as you can about what to expect when you bring your baby to the doctor/hospital. You may ask about what your baby will look like after a procedure (swelling, bandages, etc.). Take notes so you will remember what you are told and write down any questions you might have.

No matter how young your baby is, try not to have medical conversations while you are holding him/her. These talks can be stressful and your baby will respond to your tension.

Ask if you can stay with your baby during medical procedures. If that is not possible, stay for as long as you can. Give comfort by touching them, singing, or doing any of the things that you know are usually soothing.

Bring familiar objects from home such as a stuffed animal, blanket, music box or toy. These can be used to help comfort your baby before, during or after a procedure.